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Michael Robert's avatar

This really is an imperative process we should all consider. My wife and I have done this where we can. But it is truly challenging to reclaim your data and control of technical access.

For instance, as a parent, the public school system my kids go to relies on a lot of tech and apps for communication to parents. It is challenging to deal with because each school and each school staff have their own tools they use. When kids switch grades or move to the next school, tech changes. But one of us is required to be connected to stay informed.

Personally, I started with social media reduction. It was better for my sanity, and it was an easy way to control what I use. I don't have any social apps on my phone, except YouTube. I connect to Bluesky and Reddit via browser. I deleted my original Facebook account (and restarted a new one exclusively for Marketplace). I still have other accounts out there in the world, but working to delete or curate those one by one too (like figuring out how to regain access to ancient ones).

I admit that this is a very long road to walk, and short of a total apocalyptic global technical ending, I'll be on it forever. But, as you said, the perfectionism of values, data, and technical ownership, gets people stuck. So one step at a time on that responsible understanding of my personal data.

Carol Sperry's avatar

This rings way too true for comfort. Honestly, I check my phone in the am to see if ole bonespurs pushed us further, even as I type that I recognize the ridiculousness...he's in office because we already were over the edge.... ok.....delete my games and get out a deck of cards. Have a book to read and one waiting. One Just For Fun. That's my start. Thanks for posting this

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